KVM: nSVM: implement on demand allocation of the nested state

This way we don't waste memory on VMs which don't use nesting
virtualization even when the host enabled it for them.

Signed-off-by: Maxim Levitsky <mlevitsk@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20201001112954.6258-5-mlevitsk@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>