dm: use blk_set_queue_dying() in __dm_destroy()

After QUEUE_FLAG_DYING has been set any code that is waiting in
get_request() should be woken up.  But to get this behaviour
blk_set_queue_dying() must be used instead of only setting
QUEUE_FLAG_DYING.

Signed-off-by: Bart Van Assche <bart.vanassche@sandisk.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>