nfsd: Migrate the stateid reference into nfs4_find_stateid_by_type()

Allow nfs4_find_stateid_by_type to take the stateid reference, while
still holding the &cl->cl_lock. Necessary step toward client_mutex
removal.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>