ehea: DLPAR memory add fix

Due to stability issues in high load situations the HW queue handling
has to be changed. The HW queues are now stopped and restarted again instead
of destroying and allocating new HW queues.

Signed-off-by: Jan-Bernd Themann <themann@de.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Garzik <jeff@garzik.org>