nfsd: nfsd4_open_confirm() must reference the open stateid

Ensure that nfsd4_open_confirm() keeps a reference to the open
stateid until it is done working with it.

Necessary step toward client_mutex removal.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>