net: openvswitch: introduce common code for flushing flows

To avoid some issues, for example RCU usage warning and double free,
we should flush the flows under ovs_lock. This patch refactors
table_instance_destroy and introduces table_instance_flow_flush
which can be invoked by __dp_destroy or ovs_flow_tbl_flush.

Fixes: 50b0e61b

 ("net: openvswitch: fix possible memleak on destroy flow-table")
Reported-by: Johan Knöös <jknoos@google.com>
Reported-at: https://mail.openvswitch.org/pipermail/ovs-discuss/2020-August/050489.html
Signed-off-by: Tonghao Zhang <xiangxia.m.yue@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Cong Wang <xiyou.wangcong@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>