drm/dp_mst: Factor out a helper to check the atomic state of a topology manager

Factor out a helper to check the atomic state for one MST topology
manager, returning the MST port where the BW limit check has failed.
This will be used in a follow-up patch by the i915 driver to improve the
BW sharing between MST streams.

Cc: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Cc: dri-devel@lists.freedesktop.org
Reviewed-by: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Maxime Ripard <mripard@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20231030155843.2251023-5-imre.deak@intel.com