vdpa: mlx5: synchronize driver status with CVQ

Currently, CVQ doesn't have any synchronization with the driver
status. Then CVQ emulation code run in the middle of:

1) device reset
2) device status changed
3) map updating

The will lead several unexpected issue like trying to execute CVQ
command after the driver has been teared down.

Fixing this by using reslock to synchronize CVQ emulation code with
the driver status changing:

- protect the whole device reset, status changing and set_map()
  updating with reslock
- protect the CVQ handler with the reslock and check
  VIRTIO_CONFIG_S_DRIVER_OK in the CVQ handler

This will guarantee that:

1) CVQ handler won't work if VIRTIO_CONFIG_S_DRIVER_OK is not set
2) CVQ handler will see a consistent state of the driver instead of
   the partial one when it is running in the middle of the
   teardown_driver() or setup_driver().

Cc: 5262912e

 ("vdpa/mlx5: Add support for control VQ and MAC setting")
Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220329042109.4029-2-jasowang@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Eli Cohen <elic@nvidia.com>