KVM: Add KVM_CAP_DIRTY_LOG_RING_ACQ_REL capability and config option

In order to differenciate between architectures that require no extra
synchronisation when accessing the dirty ring and those who do,
add a new capability (KVM_CAP_DIRTY_LOG_RING_ACQ_REL) that identify
the latter sort. TSO architectures can obviously advertise both, while
relaxed architectures must only advertise the ACQ_REL version.

This requires some configuration symbol rejigging, with HAVE_KVM_DIRTY_RING
being only indirectly selected by two top-level config symbols:
- HAVE_KVM_DIRTY_RING_TSO for strongly ordered architectures (x86)
- HAVE_KVM_DIRTY_RING_ACQ_REL for weakly ordered architectures (arm64)

Suggested-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Marc Zyngier <maz@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Gavin Shan <gshan@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220926145120.27974-3-maz@kernel.org