net/mlx5: Set default grace period based on function type

Currently, driver sets the same grace period for fw fatal health reporter
to any type of function.

Since the lower level functions are more vulnerable to fw fatal errors as a
result of parent function closure/reload, set a smaller grace period for
the lower level functions, as follows:

1. For ECPF: 180 seconds.
2. For PF: 60 seconds.
3. For VF/SF: 30 seconds.

Signed-off-by: Maher Sanalla <msanalla@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Moshe Shemesh <moshe@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>