tcp/dccp: remove struct listen_sock

It is enough to check listener sk_state, no need for an extra
condition.

max_qlen_log can be moved into struct request_sock_queue

We can remove syn_wait_lock and the alignment it enforced.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>