selftests/bpf: Do not fail build if CONFIG_NF_CONNTRACK=m/n

Some users have complained that selftests fail to build when
CONFIG_NF_CONNTRACK=m. It would be useful to allow building as long as
it is set to module or built-in, even though in case of building as
module, user would need to load it before running the selftest. Note
that this also allows building selftest when CONFIG_NF_CONNTRACK is
disabled.

Signed-off-by: Kumar Kartikeya Dwivedi <memxor@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20220120164932.2798544-1-memxor@gmail.com