vfio/pci: Pull BAR mapping setup from read-write path

This creates a common helper that we'll use for ioeventfd setup.

Reviewed-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Auger <eric.auger@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Alexey Kardashevskiy <aik@ozlabs.ru>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>