serial: Do not hold the port lock when setting rx-during-tx GPIO

Both the imx and stm32 driver set the rx-during-tx GPIO in rs485_config().
Since this function is called with the port lock held, this can be a
problem in case that setting the GPIO line can sleep (e.g. if a GPIO
expander is used which is connected via SPI or I2C).

Avoid this issue by moving the GPIO setting outside of the port lock into
the serial core and thus making it a generic feature.

Also with commit c54d4854 ("serial: stm32: Add support for rs485
RX_DURING_TX output GPIO") the SER_RS485_RX_DURING_TX flag is only set if a
rx-during-tx GPIO is _not_ available, which is wrong. Fix this, too.

Furthermore reset old GPIO settings in case that changing the RS485
configuration failed.

Fixes: c54d4854 ("serial: stm32: Add support for rs485 RX_DURING_TX output GPIO")
Fixes: ca530cfa

 ("serial: imx: Add support for RS485 RX_DURING_TX output GPIO")
Cc: Shawn Guo <shawnguo@kernel.org>
Cc: Sascha Hauer <s.hauer@pengutronix.de>
Cc:  <stable@vger.kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Lino Sanfilippo <l.sanfilippo@kunbus.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240103061818.564-2-l.sanfilippo@kunbus.com
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>