IB/mlx5: Pass mlx5_flow_act struct instead of multiple arguments

Group and pass all function arguments of parse_flow_attr call in one
common struct mlx5_flow_act.

This patch passes all the action arguments of parse_flow_attr in one common
struct mlx5_flow_act. It allows us to scale the number of actions without adding
new arguments to the function.

Signed-off-by: Matan Barak <matanb@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Boris Pismenny <borisp@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>