RDMA/qedr: Add support for user mode XRC-SRQ's

Implement the XRC specific verbs.  The additional QP type introduced new
logic to the rest of the verbs that now require distinguishing whether a
QP has an "RQ" or an "SQ" or both.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20200722102339.30104-1-ybason@marvell.com


Signed-off-by: Michal Kalderon <mkalderon@marvell.com>
Signed-off-by: Yuval Basson <ybason@marvell.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>