netlink: annotate data races around dst_portid and dst_group

netlink_getname(), netlink_sendmsg() and netlink_getsockbyportid()
can read nlk->dst_portid and nlk->dst_group while another
thread is changing them.

Fixes: 1da177e4 ("Linux-2.6.12-rc2")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>