be2net: Synchronize be_update_queues with dev_watchdog

As pointed out by Firo Yang, a netdev tx timeout may trigger just before an
ethtool set_channels operation is started. be_tx_timeout(), which dumps
some queue structures, is not written to run concurrently with
be_update_queues(), which frees/allocates those queues structures. Add some
synchronization between the two.

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Signed-off-by: Benjamin Poirier <bpoirier@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>