block: use queue_limits_commit_update in queue_discard_max_store

Convert queue_discard_max_store to use queue_limits_commit_update to
check and update the max_discard_sectors limit and freeze the queue
before doing so to ensure we don't have requests in flight while
changing the limits.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Chaitanya Kulkarni <kch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Damien Le Moal <dlemoal@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240213073425.1621680-8-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>