vfs: add find_inode_nowait() function

Add a new function find_inode_nowait() which is an even more general
version of ilookup5_nowait().  It is designed for callers which need
very fine grained control over when the function is allowed to block
or increment the inode's reference count.

Signed-off-by: Theodore Ts'o <tytso@mit.edu>
Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>