IB/uverbs: Avoid a crash on device hot remove

Wait until all users have closed their device context before allowing
device unregistration to complete.  This prevents a crash caused by
referring to stale data structures.

A better solution would be to have a way to revoke contexts rather
than waiting for userspace to close the context, but that's a much
bigger change that will have to wait.  For now let's at least avoid
the crash.

Signed-off-by: Jack Morgenstein <jackm@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>