bpf: Remember smap in bpf_local_storage

This patch remembers which smap triggers the allocation
of a 'struct bpf_local_storage' object. The local_storage is
allocated during the very first selem added to the owner.
The smap pointer is needed when using the bpf_mem_cache_free
in a later patch because it needs to free to the correct
smap's bpf_mem_alloc object.

When a selem is being removed, it needs to check if it is
the selem that triggers the creation of the local_storage.
If it is, the local_storage->smap pointer will be reset to NULL.
This NULL reset is done under the local_storage->lock in
bpf_selem_unlink_storage_nolock() when a selem is being removed.
Also note that the local_storage may not go away even
local_storage->smap is NULL because there may be other
selem still stored in the local_storage.

Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230308065936.1550103-6-martin.lau@linux.dev


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>