signalfd: convert to ->read_iter()

Rather than use the older style ->read() hook, use ->read_iter() so that
signalfd can support both O_NONBLOCK and IOCB_NOWAIT for non-blocking
read attempts.

Split the fd setup into two parts, so that signalfd can mark the file
mode with FMODE_NOWAIT before installing it into the process table.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>