netvsc: fix rtnl deadlock on unregister of vf

With new transparent VF support, it is possible to get a deadlock
when some of the deferred work is running and the unregister_vf
is trying to cancel the work element. The solution is to use
trylock and reschedule (similar to bonding and team device).

Reported-by: Vitaly Kuznetsov <vkuznets@redhat.com>
Fixes: 0c195567 ("netvsc: transparent VF management")
Signed-off-by: Stephen Hemminger <sthemmin@microsoft.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>