net: ethtool: pass a pointer to parameters to get/set_rxfh ethtool ops

The get/set_rxfh ethtool ops currently takes the rxfh (RSS) parameters
as direct function arguments. This will force us to change the API (and
all drivers' functions) every time some new parameters are added.

This is part 1/2 of the fix, as suggested in [1]:

- First simplify the code by always providing a pointer to all params
   (indir, key and func); the fact that some of them may be NULL seems
   like a weird historic thing or a premature optimization.
   It will simplify the drivers if all pointers are always present.

 - Then make the functions take a dev pointer, and a pointer to a
   single struct wrapping all arguments. The set_* should also take
   an extack.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/20231121152906.2dd5f487@kernel.org/ [1]
Suggested-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Suggested-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Ahmed Zaki <ahmed.zaki@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231213003321.605376-2-ahmed.zaki@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>