dma-buf: rename and cleanup dma_resv_get_list v2

When the comment needs to state explicitly that this is doesn't get a reference
to the object then the function is named rather badly.

Rename the function and use it in even more places.

v2: use dma_resv_shared_list as new name

Signed-off-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Acked-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20210602111714.212426-5-christian.koenig@amd.com