md: remove redundant md_wakeup_thread()

On the one hand, mddev_unlock() will call md_wakeup_thread()
unconditionally; on the other hand, md_check_recovery() can't make
progress if 'reconfig_mutex' can't be grabbed. Hence, it really doesn't
make sense to wake up daemon thread while 'reconfig_mutex' is still
grabbed.

Remove all the md_wakup_thread() for 'mddev->thread' while
'reconfig_mtuex' is still grabbed.

Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231228125553.2697765-3-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com