net/smc: add sysctl for max links per lgr for SMC-R v2.1

Add a new sysctl: net.smc.smcr_max_links_per_lgr, which is
used to control the preferred max links per lgr for SMC-R
v2.1. The default value of this sysctl is 2, and the acceptable
value ranges from 1 to 2.

Signed-off-by: Guangguan Wang <guangguan.wang@linux.alibaba.com>
Reviewed-by: Dust Li <dust.li@linux.alibaba.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>