drm/i915: Defer active reference until required

We only need the active reference to keep the object alive after the
handle has been deleted (so as to prevent a synchronous gem_close). Why
then pay the price of a kref on every execbuf when we can insert that
final active ref just in time for the handle deletion?

Signed-off-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Reviewed-by: Joonas Lahtinen <joonas.lahtinen@linux.intel.com>
Link: http://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20161028125858.23563-6-chris@chris-wilson.co.uk