wifi: mac80211: do not wake queues on a vif that is being stopped

When a vif is being removed and sdata->bss is cleared, __ieee80211_wake_txqs
can still be called on it, which crashes as soon as sdata->bss is being
dereferenced.
To fix this properly, check for SDATA_STATE_RUNNING before waking queues,
and take the fq lock when setting it (to ensure that __ieee80211_wake_txqs
observes the change when running on a different CPU)

Signed-off-by: Felix Fietkau <nbd@nbd.name>
Acked-by: Toke Høiland-Jørgensen <toke@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220531190824.60019-1-nbd@nbd.name
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>