KVM: selftests: Add helpers to convert guest memory b/w private and shared

Add helpers to convert memory between private and shared via KVM's
memory attributes, as well as helpers to free/allocate guest_memfd memory
via fallocate().  Userspace, i.e. tests, is NOT required to do fallocate()
when converting memory, as the attributes are the single source of truth.
Provide allocate() helpers so that tests can mimic a userspace that frees
private memory on conversion, e.g. to prioritize memory usage over
performance.

Signed-off-by: Vishal Annapurve <vannapurve@google.com>
Co-developed-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>
Message-Id: <20231027182217.3615211-28-seanjc@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Fuad Tabba <tabba@google.com>
Tested-by: Fuad Tabba <tabba@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>