add includes masked by cgroup -> bpf dependency

cgroup pulls in BPF which pulls in a lot of includes.
We're about to break that chain so fix those who were
depending on it.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20211216025538.1649516-2-kuba@kernel.org