IB: make INFINIBAND_ADDR_TRANS configurable

Allow INFINIBAND without INFINIBAND_ADDR_TRANS because fuzzing has been
finding fair number of CM bugs.  So provide option to disable it.

Signed-off-by: Greg Thelen <gthelen@google.com>
Cc: Tarick Bedeir <tarick@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Bart Van Assche <bart.vanassche@wdc.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>