udp: add local "peek offset enabled" flag

We want to re-organize the struct sock layout. The sk_peek_off
field location is problematic, as most protocols want it in the
RX read area, while UDP wants it on a cacheline different from
sk_receive_queue.

Create a local (inside udp_sock) copy of the 'peek offset is enabled'
flag and place it inside the same cacheline of reader_queue.

Check such flag before reading sk_peek_off. This will save potential
false sharing and cache misses in the fast-path.

Tested under UDP flood with small packets. The struct sock layout
update causes a 4% performance drop, and this patch restores completely
the original tput.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/67ab679c15fbf49fa05b3ffe05d91c47ab84f147.1708426665.git.pabeni@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>