afs: Make vnode->cb_interest RCU safe

Use RCU-based freeing for afs_cb_interest struct objects and use RCU on
vnode->cb_interest.  Use that change to allow afs_check_validity() to use
read_seqbegin_or_lock() instead of read_seqlock_excl().

This also requires the caller of afs_check_validity() to hold the RCU read
lock across the call.

Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>