rds: Fix non-atomic operation on shared flag variable

The bits in m_flags in struct rds_message are used for a plurality of
reasons, and from different contexts. To avoid any missing updates to
m_flags, use the atomic set_bit() instead of the non-atomic equivalent.

Signed-off-by: Håkon Bugge <haakon.bugge@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Knut Omang <knut.omang@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Wei Lin Guay <wei.lin.guay@oracle.com>
Acked-by: Santosh Shilimkar <santosh.shilimkar@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>