vfio/type1: Update iova list on detach

Get a copy of iova list on _group_detach and try to update the list.
On success replace the current one with the copy. Leave the list as
it is if update fails.

Signed-off-by: Shameer Kolothum <shameerali.kolothum.thodi@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Auger <eric.auger@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>