net: add <net/proto_memory.h>

Move some proto memory definitions out of <net/sock.h>

Very few files need them, and following patch
will include <net/hotdata.h> from <net/proto_memory.h>

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240429134025.1233626-5-edumazet@google.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>