drm/scheduler: Add fence deadline support

As the finished fence is the one that is exposed to userspace, and
therefore the one that other operations, like atomic update, would
block on, we need to propagate the deadline from from the finished
fence to the actual hw fence.

v2: Split into drm_sched_fence_set_parent() (ckoenig)
v3: Ensure a thread calling drm_sched_fence_set_deadline_finished() sees
    fence->parent set before drm_sched_fence_set_parent() does this
    test_bit(DMA_FENCE_FLAG_HAS_DEADLINE_BIT).

Signed-off-by: Rob Clark <robdclark@chromium.org>
Acked-by: Luben Tuikov <luben.tuikov@amd.com>