net/mlx5: mlx5_ifc updates for MATCH_DEFINER general object

Update full structure of match definer and add an ID of
the SELECT match definer type.

Signed-off-by: Yevgeny Kliteynik <kliteyn@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Vesker <valex@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>