bcachefs: Run insert triggers before overwrite triggers

Currently, btree triggers are run in natural key order, which presents a
problem for fallocate in INSERT_RANGE mode: since we're moving existing
extents to higher offsets, the trigger for deleting the old extent runs
before the trigger that adds the new extent, potentially leading to
indirect extents being deleted that shouldn't be when the delete causes
the refcount to hit 0.

This changes the order we run triggers so that for a givin btree, we run
all insert triggers before overwrite triggers, nicely sidestepping this
issue.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>