libbpf: Switch rings to array of pointers

Switch rb->rings to be an array of pointers instead of a contiguous
block. This allows for each ring pointer to be stable after
ring_buffer__add is called, which allows us to expose struct ring * to
the user without gotchas. Without this change, the realloc in
ring_buffer__add could invalidate a struct ring *, making it unsafe to
give to the user.

Signed-off-by: Martin Kelly <martin.kelly@crowdstrike.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20230925215045.2375758-3-martin.kelly@crowdstrike.com