net/mlx5e: rep, store send to vport rules per peer

Each representor, for each send queue, is holding a
send_to_vport rule for the peer eswitch.

In order to support more than one peer, and to map between the peer
rules and peer eswitches, refactor representor to hold both the peer
rules and pointer to the peer eswitches.
This enables mlx5 to store send_to_vport rules per peer, where each
peer have dedicate index via mlx5_get_dev_index().

Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Shay Drory <shayd@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Roi Dayan <roid@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>