mm: hugetlb_vmemmap: provide stronger vmemmap allocation guarantees

HugeTLB pages have a struct page optimizations where struct pages for tail
pages are freed.  However, when HugeTLB pages are destroyed, the memory
for struct pages (vmemmap) need to be allocated again.

Currently, __GFP_NORETRY flag is used to allocate the memory for vmemmap,
but given that this flag makes very little effort to actually reclaim
memory the returning of huge pages back to the system can be problem. 
Lets use __GFP_RETRY_MAYFAIL instead.  This flag is also performs graceful
reclaim without causing ooms, but at least it may perform a few retries,
and will fail only when there is genuinely little amount of unused memory
in the system.

Freeing a 1G page requires 16M of free memory.  A machine might need to be
reconfigured from one task to another, and release a large number of 1G
pages back to the system if allocating 16M fails, the release won't work.

Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20230508234059.2529638-1-pasha.tatashin@soleen.com


Signed-off-by: Pasha Tatashin <pasha.tatashin@soleen.com>
Suggested-by: David Rientjes <rientjes@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Kravetz <mike.kravetz@oracle.com>
Cc: Michal Hocko <mhocko@suse.com>
Cc: Muchun Song <muchun.song@linux.dev>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>