btrfs: handle extent reference errors in do_relocation

We can already deal with errors appropriately from do_relocation, simply
handle any errors that come from changing the refs at this point
cleanly.  We have to abort the transaction if we fail here as we've
modified metadata at this point.

Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>