md: Use enum for overloaded magic numbers used by mddev->curr_resync

Comments in the code document special values used for
mddev->curr_resync. Make this clearer by using an enum to label these
values.

The only functional change is a couple places use the wrong comparison
operator that implied 3 is another special value. They are all
fixed to imply that 3 or greater is an active resync.

Signed-off-by: Logan Gunthorpe <logang@deltatee.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>