dlm: use rwlock for rsb hash table

The conversion to rhashtable introduced a hash table lock per lockspace,
in place of per bucket locks.  To make this more scalable, switch to
using a rwlock for hash table access.  The common case fast path uses
it as a read lock.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>