bnxt_en: Support QOS and TPID settings for the SRIOV VLAN

Add these missing settings in the .ndo_set_vf_vlan() method.
Older firmware does not support the TPID setting so check for
proper support.

Remove the unused BNXT_VF_QOS flag.

Signed-off-by: Sreekanth Reddy <sreekanth.reddy@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Chan <michael.chan@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>