block/genhd: Notify udev about capacity change

Allow block/genhd to notify user space (via udev) about disk size changes
using a new helper set_capacity_revalidate_and_notify(), which is a wrapper
on top of set_capacity(). set_capacity_revalidate_and_notify() will only
notify via udev if the current capacity or the target capacity is not zero
and iff the capacity changes.

Suggested-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Someswarudu Sangaraju <ssomesh@amazon.com>
Signed-off-by: Balbir Singh <sblbir@amazon.com>
Reviewed-by: Bob Liu <bob.liu@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>