perf tools: Use list_del_init() more thorougly

To allow for destructors to check if they're operating on a object still
in a list, and to avoid going from use after free list entries into
still valid, or even also other already removed from list entries.

Cc: Adrian Hunter <adrian.hunter@intel.com>
Cc: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Cc: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>
Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/n/tip-deh17ub44atyox3j90e6rksu@git.kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@redhat.com>